The Solution to (failed) Resolutions

Are you making any New Year’s resolutions? Do you even remember your resolutions from last year? I’m betting you don’t, and I’ll also bet the reason why is that you didn’t write it down.

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Allow me to offer a solution to the failed resolution problem. I have personally never been a big fan of resolutions, simply because they fail far too often. I also don’t see the point of waiting to start something on January 1 as if it has magical and mystical qualities to it. Yes, it’s a new year and a new beginning, but anything that you want to start in the new year can be started today. That’s not tomorrow, it’s today! Tomorrow is full of even more tomorrows. Tomorrow can be endless, but today is today, and tomorrow it is gone.

It has been well documented that writing down your plans and goals greatly increases the odds for successful fulfillment. Writing down your plan is crucial. Most goals will not completed unless you write them down. There’s something about writing it down that makes it more of commitment. And, since resolutions are more often than not, “made to be broken”, I suggest that you don’t make any resolutions. What you should do is make a plan! After all, you wouldn’t start a business without a business plan, would you? If you are a married man, you didn’t propose to your wife without planning to buy the ring and planning to ask her to marry you. It’s not like you went to the movies and just happened to ask her over the popcorn, right?

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So make a plan for 2015. Make a plan for the entire year. Plan for your success. Plan time for new and old hobbies. Plan a big present for yourself or your family. Plan to do things that you have never done before.  Most importantly, plan for a great year!

Happy New Year, and happy planning, today, tomorrow and throughout the year!

Top Summer Suggestions – Washington, DC 2012

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I love Washington, DC, and have chosen to call this area “home” since I graduated college from the University of Maryland.  Between the beauty of the monuments, and all the wonderful year-round events, there is so much to see and do in this Capitol City.

There can always be a debate as to what are the best things to do in the area, but I created my own list of Top 5* Summer Ideas for Washington, DC (*addendum added).  I hope that you find my ideas helpful, and if you already live here, I encourage you to act like a tourist in your own town, this summer.

1.       Screen on the Green – One of my favorite summertime events, and a great way to watch a movie.  Watch a free classic flick, surrounded by spectacular views of both the Capitol and the Washington Monument – as they light up the National Mall on a summer’s night.   Get there early to find a good viewing spot, and perhaps picnic beforehand…and don’t forget your bug spray!  This year’s movies start on Monday, July 16th and include;

Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, It Happened One Night, From Here to Eternity and Psycho

If you love the idea of an outdoor movie, but would rather stay closer to home, there are several locales that provide alternative options.  For more details, see: http://dc.about.com/od/filmfestivals/tp/OutdoorMovies.htm

2.        The Marine Corps Drum and Bugle Corps perform every Tuesday evening in the summer at the Iwo Jima Memorial in nearby Rosslyn, VA.  Adorned by this inspirational monument, the Marines play a medley of military standards and other popular songs, all while marching nobly in dress uniform.

Although I have lived in the DC area for the better part of my adult life, 2012 was the very first time that I attended this remarkable event, and I strongly encourage you to add it to your to-do list this summer.  For a good perspective, see three photos that I posted on “Steve’s pictures” page.

For information on other free area concerts see: http://dc.about.com/od/concerts/a/summerconcerts.htm

3.       Washington Nationals – Since relocating to DC from Montreal in 2005, the Washington Nationals have been perennial “cellar-dwellars”.  However,  as they approach the halfway point of the 2012 baseball season, the Nationals are in First Place in the very competitive National League East.  There’s still plenty of time left to take in a game (or several) this season and join in the excitement.  It’s time to get your Natitiude on!

 4.       Free Smithsonian Events – Ranging from Free Friday Jazz at the Sculpture Garden (pretty much self explanatory), http://dc.about.com/od/concerts/a/JazzinGarden.htm, to the renown Smithsonian Folklife Festival, which continues July 4th through 8th.  The Folklife Festival celebrates cultural traditions from around the world, and includes daily and evening music and dance performances, crafts and cooking demonstrations, and more.

For additional details, visit: http://www.festival.si.edu/

5.       Celebrate Independence Day in your Nation’s Capitol –  Saving the best for last, the National Fireworks in Washington DC offers a multitude of spectacular views and eye-popping pyrotechnics.  Celebrate our nation’s birthday by watching the fireworks on The National Mall, adorned by Washington’s magnificent monuments and the U. S. Capitol.  With an incredibly beautiful and patriotic setting, DC provides a perfect way to enjoy America’s Independence Day celebrations.

For more information on Fourth of July Fireworks 2012 in Washington, DC,  Maryland and Virginia, see: http://dc.about.com/od/specialevents/a/4thofJuly.htm.  

A 4th of July parade offers an alternative daytime option.  You can find one to enjoy by visiting: http://dc.about.com/od/4thofjuly/a/4thJulyParades.htm

While your options are limitless, those are my top 5 summer suggestions.  Feel free to comment and share your own ideas.

Happy 4th of July!!

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Update July 6, 2012

With the Smithsonian Folklife Festival ending on July 8th and the National Fireworks having come and gone, I wanted to add an addendum to my list.   Here are a few additional ideas: 

Outdoor summer concerts at Wolf Trap.  While seating is available, I’ve always preferred to bring a blanket and picnic out on the lawn.  Located in nearby Wolf Trap Park,  there’s a variety of music to fit assorted tastes www.wolftrap.org.  Choices include pop/rock from the 60’s to present times, blues, jazz, country and classical.  If Hip-Hop is more your style, the DC Hip-Hop Theater Festival celebrates its 10th anniversary with free and low cost events centered on hip-hop in the form of theatre, dance, art and music.  From July 11th through July 16th, it is located at venues such as The Kennedy Center Millennium Stage and Arena Stage. http://dc.about.com/od/specialevents/a/HipHopFestival.htm

For tennis fans, there is The Citi Open, (formerly the Legg Mason Tennis Tournament) in Washington, DC from July 28th through August 5th www.citiopentennis.com.  The Washington Kastles play July 9th through 28th www.washingtonkastles.com.

If you would rather participate in an activity rather than watch an event, may I also suggest renting a canoe at Fletchers Boat House, www.fletcherscove.com, or go bicycling on the Rock Creek Park trail, the Old Dominion Park trail, the C&O Canal path, or the Mount Vernon trail.  While it is open year-round, the National Zoo, featuring the famous Giant Pandas Mei Xiang and Tian Tian, is always a great visit – summertime or anytime, while beautiful Great Falls is a way to find a nice shaded hike.

So there you have it.  Of course I could go on and on, but it’s time for me to stop typing and go out and do something.  Hmmmm, where should I start?

 Steve/aka theguyfrom4staff